Consequences of Stress on Children's Development
Poverty
My
childhood and adolescent years were not very predictable financially. My mother had substance issues that haunted her
throughout my developing years. When she
was clean, which could be a couple years or a couple of days at a time, we were
stable and predictable. At her worst
times, we experienced poverty, unpredictable living conditions, and high levels
of stress. I have memories of grocery
shopping at the dollar store and helping my mother clean out repossessed
manufactured homes as a teenager to get by.
At times, I was highly impacted, unable to focus in school and maintain
social relationships. Often, I lost
myself in fantasy literature and began to distance myself from my home as I got
older. I rarely invited friends to my
house, with fear of what state my house or mother was in. I learned how to develop a life that existed
outside of the physical home and state I was in.
I
was fortunate enough to have family and friends surrounding me to lend support in
taking care of me during these times. My
aunt often took me on weekends and made sure I was taken care of throughout my
childhood. I made a couple best friends
early on and practically lived at their houses while growing up. I also attended childcare, preschool, and
after-school programs when my mom did work.
I took a little from each of the support systems I had around to keep myself
grounded and understand my circumstances were only environmental. I was a resilient child and leaned on my resources
when I needed to. They helped me believe
that I was an important person and was not bound by my story and could be successful
in the future.
In
Breaking the
cycle of poverty: challenges for European early childhood education and care (2014), Leseman & Slot discussed childhood
poverty in European countries and the impacts of high-quality education in
early childhood. They have found that
early childhood education and care (ECEC) can be one of the most important
components to battling the war on childhood poverty (Leseman, & Slot,
2014). Childhood poverty and high levels
of stress can result in developmental delays, poor academic skills, challenging
behaviors, and lack of emotional-regulation (Leseman, & Slot, 2014). Just as I mentioned, in my personal
experience, it was found that the support system and values surrounding the
child determined the success of breaking the poverty cycle through early
education experiences. The more support
the child has surrounding them, the greater chances of exiting the poverty
cycle. However, the cultural values of
the family must accept and believe in the philosophy of early education services
for the child to benefit from the experience.
Children
form cultural identities through the values that are supported in their home
and educational environments that may require the child to assimilate to the
environment, such as dual language learners. Leseman & Slot found, “among youth
in 13 European countries…that immigrant youth have better mental health, better
school achievement and integrate better in countries that do not force assimilation,
but instead support maintenance of the minority’s own language and culture
(Leseman, & Slot, 2014, p. 8). Children
are sensitive to how the world views them in the early years and need guidance
on how to value themselves and the various cultures they belong to.
The
westernized values in my own family understood the importance of utilizing
resources such as family members and educational services. I qualified for early educational and intervention
services due to risk factors, and luckily my mother supported the use of
them. However, not all children are fortunate
to have such a positive ending as mine. As
Leseman & Slot mentioned, the work of early childhood education and care
are not meeting high-quality standards in most countries and nations. We need to focus on the amount of families
that have access, the availability of the services to these families, the
quality of the services, reaching the most disadvantaged families that may not
have direct access to services due to rural reasons, and creating a
relationship with families of mutual respect and develop a partnership (Leseman,
& Slot, 2014). As early childhood
professionals, we need to keep striving to improve the services we are
providing to our most fragile families.
Resources
P.P.M.
Leseman, & P.L. Slot (2014, Sept). Breaking
the cycle of poverty: challenges for European early childhood education and
care. European
Early Childhood Education Research Journal, 22(3), 314-326.
Thank you for sharing your story. I applaud you on all your accomplishes despite your struggles as a young child. You have a lot you can teacher your students!
ReplyDeleteThank you so much for sharing your story from your childhood. You are lucky to have family members that were able to take care of you during your mothers hard times. I am sure that was very challenging for you as a young child and quite amazing that you were able to take something from each relationship you developed with your extended family.
ReplyDeleteThank you for sharing!
Brianna